We have been so anxious for his application to be accepted, but now that it has, reality has hit once again. It's hard for me to wrap my head around. Granted he will still be in the U.S. (at this time) makes it a bit more comforting, but not any more easier.
I am so excited for him because this means he'll be re-branching Field Artillery and doing something he really does enjoy. But I know there are going to be long-nights ahead and lonely weekends to spend with just the pup and I.
Once again our second wedding anniversary will be spent away from each other. Something we are making a tradition out of now, I guess. A Thanksgiving, a Christmas, Weddings, a Birthday or two spent apart. Though, these are the sacrifices we make, when we said our "i do's".
These aren't hard times, just lonely times.
*Photos taken by Redwall Photography, which were our engagement session over three years ago.
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Reading this made me get all teary because I know exactly how your feeling. You know I adore you and I will always be here for you, I've told you that 100 times and ill say it 100 more. Love ya!!!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear that! But like you said, at least he'll be in the US. :/ Will you be able to visit at all?
ReplyDeleteYou have lots of friends nearby to keep you busy. We can plan as many sushi dates as you can handle! Maybe Sheryl will come, maybe Stormy and baby, maybe Callie, and maybe we'll get to see Maya. And then this fall, you'll get to fill your weekends with apple picking and climbing trees and baking which will make time fly! Before you know it, you'll have lots of new memories made, he'll be home, and you'll be more than ready to spend all of your time with him!
ReplyDeleteLike Sara said your friends and family will help keep you sane and time will fly and he will be home before you know it! and if you ever want you can always Skype or Facetime (text, email, visit whatever :)) me I am a good listener, I'll be there for you girly!
ReplyDeletewell said, time apart like that is more lonely than it is hard. I love your attitude towards it all, he needs support like that! Soak up all the time you can over the next few weeks!!!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear. Even though you know it is coming, it's still hard. Chin up, you've got this!!!!
ReplyDeleteThese pictures give me chills- what a beautiful couple you are! I am sorry to hear about him being taken away- I do hope you have many prayers surrounding you! Be blessed!
ReplyDeletei can only imagine. thankful for his service though for sure!
ReplyDeleteI am thinking of you girl. It's such a weird feeling when something is good news and sad news at the same time. I guess bittersweet is the word. Glad we've started getting to know each other so I can help you through some of those lonely times :)
ReplyDeleteIt never gets easier. I've been in almost the same situation, so I know it's hard. At least he's still in the country and not on a deployment! I hope it goes by quickly for you!
ReplyDeleteI bet we can fill some of that time with fro-yo dates! :) Thinking of you! And SO grateful for that hubby of yours!
ReplyDeleteAwe sweet girl. I know the feeling all too well... Beautifully put.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts are definitly with you. I don't truly know what you are going through, but I have experienced how hard a long distance relationship can be. I hope that you have a great support group around you, but it sounds like you are so strong and know what to expect.
ReplyDeleteBeing separated is always the worst, hugs!
ReplyDeleteI admire your ability to stay fairly positive through what will so hard (and yes lonely), I just don't know how I'd manage 7 months away from my husband, I'd be a wreak.
ReplyDeleteAww...I feel for you! But I bet you're so proud of your husband for doing what he does.
ReplyDeleteAt least you will appreciate the time that you do get to spend together..making it that much more special.
Thanks for sharing this! And I wish you good luck...it'll be tough, but you can do it!
Distance absolutely sucks!! But I love your optimism and the title of this post. I'm currently 5,000 miles away from my SO and have been for the last year and a half. It's strengthened our bond infinite-fold and I'm sure it'll do the same for you! Hopefully blogging will also help xoxoxo you seem like such a strong lady!:)
ReplyDeleteYour outlook & attitude towards the situation is amazing! You are one strong lady. :) We should try & plan a get together!
ReplyDeleteattitude is everything and accepting it will be hard is already helpful! i know having my dogs around certainly help when my husband is gone but then again he isn't gone for 7 months. but knowing that your husband is getting to do something he really enjoys will be helpful.
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